Thursday, June 5, 2025

At Home: The May Books

After a wimpy April for reading, May proved more productive and more diverse. This month we have a two memoirs, a fantasy, a novel set in the late 1800s, two British mysteries and a collection of essays. 

 "The Upstairs Delicatessen" by Dwight Garner


Sometimes you get a book that is captivating but takes a longer while to read. For me, "The Upstairs Delicatessen" falls into that category. I came to calling it one of my "bathroom and waiting room" books because it is written in small bits and pieces with no plot and consequently is the perfect book to take while you're waiting for an appointment or sitting out the effects of a big dinner in a closed room alone (or in my case, with a cat.)

This book is delightful if you are a foodie. Garner, a book critic for the New York Times, combines memoir and personal stories with commentary by many writers who have mentioned food in their works. (I have to say, I was disappointed that he never mentioned Donna Leon or Martin Walker's "Brunetti" and "Bruno" books. He must not be a mystery reader!). 

After a delightful and fairly long introduction (a chapter in itself, really), Garner breaks down the book into six chapters -- Breakfast, Lunch, Shopping, Interlude, Drinking and Dinner. In each section, he draws from writers that include George Orwell, Jim Harrison, Christopher Hitchens, Simone de Bouvoir, Toni Morrison, William Golding, M.F.K. Fisher, Robert Hughes, Frank McCourt, Nora Ephron, Dylan Thomas, Kingsley Amis and so many more I couldn't begin to count.

This is a delightfully enjoyable book, but it's hard to quote from. One of my favorite chapters finds the author at the grocery store, commenting on the various displays. In the produce department, he describes his own favorite salad, which included English cucumber. "Samuel Johnson would not have been impressed. 'A cucumber should be well sliced and dressed with pepper and vinegar,' he said, 'and then thrown out, as good for nothing.' Ann Beattie has said that her last meal would include endive, though not in a calorie-saving way. 'You cut the endive in half, she explained, 'hollow out a few leaves and fill them with triple cream cheese.'"

His foray down the condiments aisle reminds him of Calvin Trillin's thoughts when one of his daughters asked for ketchup for the first time. "'How did she know about ketchup?' asks his wife, Alice. Trillin replies, 'Those wild kids down the street probably told her. Maybe we oughtn't to let her play with them anymore.'"  

This is a fun one, best read in smaller bits and savored, like so many of our own food favorites!

"To Love and Be Wise" by Josephine Tey


This is part of Tey's Alan Grant series of mysteries. This time, the Chief Inspector visits a party to pick up his friend, actress Marta Hallard. While there he meets photographer Leslie Searle, a remarkably handsome and arresting man who expresses an interest to meet radio commentator Walter Whitmore, nephew of the author Lavinia Finch. Walter is not at the party but Lavinia invites Leslie to her home in the town of Sarcott and he is driven there by her assistant (and Walter's fiance), Liz, who finds herself captivated by the handsome stranger.

Walter is both intrigued by Searle but feels increasing jealousy as he observes Liz's reaction to their guest. Still, he and Searle agree to collaborate on a book that will follow them on a river journey. All seems well until the two are spotted in a pub arguing -- after which Searle leaves and is not seen again.

Grant is called onto the scene and there are definitely suspects. But there is no body to be found. Did Searle drown and was sucked deep into the muck of the river? Or did he simply disappear? And why?

Tey spins a good tale that has Grant and Sergeant Williams talking with a number of potential suspects who had shown dislike to Searle along with others who knew the somewhat enigmatic man. With a deft hand, she weaves a wonderful story with a plot twist at the end that would do any mystery writer proud.

I've read one Tey mystery years before. This one has me wanting to read more of her work.

"Before the Coffee Gets Cold" by Toshikazu Kawaguchi


I'm not sure how to categorize this one. Novel? Yes. Fantasy? Also yes. The tag line on the cover sums it up well: "What would you change if you could travel back in time?"

Finiculi Finicula is a small cafe in downtown Tokyo, near a hospital and the train station. It is owned by Nagare and his wife, Kei, and Kazu is their waitress. Several people come to the cafe often -- Fusagi (who reads his magazine and drinks coffee); Kohtake (who we later learn is Fusagi's wife and a nurse at the hospital), and Hirai, who owns a nearby bar.

One day a young woman named Fumiko walks in, having heard rumors that you can time travel at the shop. It's true, she is told, but there are many rules, among them: You cannot change the present, you must wait for the seat to become available and you must finish your visit before the coffee gets cold.

Fumiko wants to revisit a parting from the man she loved and Kazu walks her through the steps. That's all I'll say about that one, but eventually, Hirai, Kei and Kohtake also take the journey. And the things they discover, while changing neither past nor future, do indeed change their lives.  

"A Book of Delights" by Ross Gay


This is another of my bathroom/waiting room books. It is a collection of 101 short essays, or as Gay calls them, essayettes, on things that delight him, written over the course of one year. 

That delight may come from children with the shoes that light up while they walk; the optimism of seeing a name and phone number on a backpack, knowing the owner has hope that if it is lost or stolen, it will be returned; or the joy of digging carrots from a carefully planted garden. Many of the things are the little ones we observe that charm -- and more than a few are unusual, but clearly special to Gay.

In these beautifully written essayettes, he recalls moments from his childhood and his adulthood, friendships and the magic of a poem or seeing an unusual swarm of bees (all black with irridescent wings) swarm around a beautiful plant. His writing is eloquent -- sometimes a tad too eloquent and loquacious for me (how many flowery words can I use to describe this!). And yet, I understand that (and it's not so often to make me throw the book down with an exasperated sigh!).

Most of all, it is a reminder  to all of us to note and record the delights we see in our own lives -- the smile of a child, the antics of a favorite pet, an unexpected surprise, something we learn that shocks and delights us in the best possible way. We may call ours a gratitude journal or a book of delights. In any event, it is a series of moments that captivates us. 

The friend who gave me this book said it is best read in smaller bits and I took that to heart. (I've had the book since last summer or fall, I think!). You could read it as a daily meditation or pick it up and put it down at will. In any event, I hope you will find delight there, too.

"Dinners with Ruth" by Nina Totenberg


The subtitle of Nina Totenberg's book is "A memoir on the power of friendships," and one of the friendships most shared in this delightful read is that with NPR reporter Totenberg and Supreme Court Justice Ruth Bader Ginsberg. It was a friendship of two powerful public women -- one a journalist who covered the courts, the other, one of the most famous legal women in the US -- as well as Totenberg's relationships with other dear friends, including her husbands, her sisters, her NPR colleagues and many in the legal profession. 

While her memoir covers the author's life in more detail, from her youth through marriage, widowhood, a second marriage, and a wonderful stories about her famous violinist father, it is not a chronological autobiography. As she relays her stories of friendships with Ginsberg, for example, she tells some of the back story of the justice's life and career, especially Ginsberg's relationship with Marty, Ruth's beloved husband and biggest cheerleader. Through Totenberg's eyes, we see a different Ruth than the formal woman on the judicial stage. We see one with grand humor and great style who loved opera and shopping and whose favorite "legal" job may well have been officiating at the weddings of her friends and their children.

Both Ginsberg and Totenberg came of age when women were discriminated against, both in journalism and the legal profession and the stories of their grit and determination to rise in their roles is a fascinating and inspiring one. Totenberg, along with NPR reporters Linda Wertheimer and Cokie Roberts, helped support incoming women at the network, just as the two veterans had supported the author herself when she came on the scene.

While the back stories are informative and captivating (and one learns a lot about the courts, particularly during the years of Ginsberg's tenure), it is the friendships that carry this beautiful book. It's a nostalgic story of days when two justices (Ginsburg and Antonin Scalia), polar opposites politically, could be best friends who enjoyed dinner and travels together. It's the touching truth of what friendship means when one's beloved spouse dies and widowhood comes early. It is the heartbreaking story of a tough, talented journalist (Roberts) who, throughout her cancer diagnosis and recurrence, keeps going, held aloft by her closest friends. 

Reading "Dinners with Ruth" not only makes one think with gratitude on the great friendships of their own life but also inspires us to be an even better friend to others. And that is indeed a gift. 

"Moral Treatment" by Stephanie Carpenter


I'm not sure how to write objectively about this book that takes place in the Northern Michigan Asylum for the Insane in the late 1800s. My great grandfather was a resident there for the last 13 years of his life, until 1913 (some years later than the book) and I have toured the site and found it to be unlike my mental image of an asylum. (I wrote about Henry and the asylum here if you'd like to see photos.)

The overarching belief at the asylum was "beauty is therapy" and by treating patients with respect and giving them valid work to do, it can help heal. I loved thinking of Henry in this spot with his troubled mind. 

"Moral Treatment" is based on the Traverse City Asylum and the picture it paints is a far more disturbing one. Consequently, I had to put this book down multiple times for it felt a bit painful. (Yet my rational minds always knew that not all patients were at a state where they could be more like the vision presented in the tour, so I can't fault Carpenter for this.)

The plot revolves around Amy Underwood, a late-teen who has exhibited anti-social behavior, running away, self-harm and other symptoms. She is committed by her father and aunt, who is also her stepmother. She is immediately placed in a group ward and things aren't exactly cozy -- or even at times, safe. 

As the book progresses, Amy becomes friends with another young woman, Letitia, whose mood can turn on a dime from cloying to vindictive, charming to violent. It's their relationship and Amy's growing dependence on that friendship that forms much of the plot.

The other main character in the book is The Doctor, the head of the institution and one of several at the asylum. He is a good man who does believe in the beauty as therapy model but is also dealing with a range of patients with varying degrees of mental health. From his point of view we see the challenges of managing a facility such as this and the various personalities of the other staff and board, some of whom are looking at new, more invasive methods of treatment. The relationship between the Doctor and his wife, fragile herself, but perhaps in some ways better equipped to understand the challenges of some of the inmates, is, for me, the most interesting part of the book.

As we see Amy progress and move into less frightening wards, we also see how the Doctor's belief in "the moral treatment" makes a positive impact. But when is the right time to release a patient back into the real world? The concluding chapters provide much room for thought.  

"Death of a Hollow Man" by Caroline Graham 


I've been a fan of the "Midsomer Murders" television series for years, characters of which are based on the books of Caroline Graham. Graham only wrote a handful of "Midsomer" books (all of which were adapted for the screen). I've wanted to read one for ages -- and yet could never find them in area bookstores. "The Hollow Man" came at Christmas and I loved it.

What's not to love? Favorite characters and a plot set in the world of community theatre. Can I relate? Of course!

Harold Winstanley is the arrogant producer/director of Causton's dramatic society and their current production of "Amadeus" stars Esslyn ____ as Salieri, a tour de force kind of role. Esslyn is the company's leading man in many productions and has an ego to match Harold's. His pregnant young bride, Kitty, is also in the show along with aspiring actor Nicholas and many other Causton locals, including DCI Tom Barnaby's wife, Joyce. When Esslyn is killed on stage in a dramatic gesture on opening night, Tom Barnaby and Sergeant Troy are in the audience. The curtain comes down and a night at the theatre turns into an evening on the job.

It becomes clear that this dramatic death could only be murder and the murderer was without doubt one of the company. But who? Esslyn wasn't liked and there was no shortage of suspects, from those with petty grievances to both Kitty and Esslyn's ex-wife Rosa.

Graham weaves a good tale with interesting and well-drawn characters, all of whom have fun back stories and can almost be visualized, even without benefit of the television screen. I'd recommend it.

(That said, if you are a fan of the series, be aware that the character of Sergeant Troy, who is rather sweet and lovable on television, is quite the opposite in the book! I can see why they changed his role completely! For once, a screen version did something very right!)

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45 comments:

Anonymous said...

Good mix, the list is fantastic. Thank you
May

Beatrice P. Boyd said...

Jeanie, I was not familiar with any of your May titles and the only author that would interest me in this month's group is Caroline Graham. I have been on a British police procedural reading binge recently. I just received notification that the new book by Anthony Horowitz that i reserved only this week is available for pickup. I will be a happy reader.

Carol @Comfort Spring Station said...

Wow! You really read variety in May. Several non-fiction sound fascinating. Thanks for your thoughts on each.

Joyce said...

I love Midsomer Murders and didn't know the series was based on a book series. Definitely going to look for the one you mentioned or others in that series. And the foodie book sounds like a fun read too. Thanks for sharing!

Linda's Relaxing Lair said...

I love the covers on the Upstairs Delicatessen and Before the Coffee gets Cold.

Boud said...

I love Tey and wish she'd written more under that name. Her other nom de plume isn't as intriguing to my taste. to love and be wise was so obvious form the jump, though, even way back when I read it before today's openness. It's still a good story, though. Have you read The Franchise Affair? If not, I recommend it.

Miss Merry said...

The only one of these I have read is Dinners with Ruth. It was recommended by a friend and I did like it. Some of the others sound pretty good too.

Joyful said...

Definitely some interesting books in the mix. I read the one about time travel by the Japanese author. I enjoyed it.

Lisa's Yarns said...

My book club read Dinners with Ruth a year or 2 ago and we all really enjoyed it. I loved learning more about RBG and hearing about a healthy female friendship! My MIL read it with her book club this spring and didn't like it as much as I did - she thought it was less about Ruth and more about Nina. But I didn't get that feeling (I felt like it was balanced and Ruth was the throughline of the stories told).

Joanne said...

A lovely eclectic mix of books! Dinners with Ruth sounds rather sweet. I love a good memoir; even if I don't necessarily know anything about said "famous" person.

Tom said...

...Jeanie, you sure had a busy May! I've always enjoyed Nina Totenberg, have a wonderful weekend.

Prims By The Water said...

Maybe when I retire I will have time to read again. Janice

Sherry's Pickings said...

lots of interesting books there Jeanie.

Deb Nance at Readerbuzz said...

I feel inspired by the Ross Gay book to write my own Book of Delights. (BTW, there is a sequel, if you are interested.)

roughterrain crane said...

I have read "Before the coffee gets cold".

eileeninmd said...

Hello Jeanie,
What a nice variety of books. I am a fan of the TV series Midsomer Murders too. I will have to look for the Caroline Graham book. Thanks for your reviews. Take care, have a great day and a happy weekend!

David M. Gascoigne, said...

Literate reviews as always, Jeanie.

La Table De Nana said...

Your reading prowess astounds me! Truly..Im trying to get through an audiobook lol..The last few books I have read(This winter) have not robbed me:(

maya said...

What a great reading month! My heart leapt when I saw the Ross Gay, because I keep that book in the family room to dip into with kids or myself now and then. I really would like to find a copy of the Dwight Garner--it sounds fascinating.
And of course you would have the Nina Tottenberg book :)!

Marilyn Miller said...

Fascinating list this month. I kind of like short essay books for morning reading with my tea. I could be tempted by the two you mentioned, The Book of Delights and The Upstairs Delicatessen. The one that intrigues me with time travel is Before the Coffee Gets Cold. Thanks for the recommendations.

Pam Richardson said...

As always, I so enjoy your book reviews. The Book of Delights might encourage me to be a better journaler. Thank you, Jeanie and wishing you a wonderful weekend!

Sandra Cox said...

Looks like you got a lot of reading done. Thanks for reviewing and sharing.

Mae Travels said...

Your selection is fascinating. So many different ways of writing a book! I have read a few of them, and seen the TV productions of a couple of others. My review of the Dwight Gardner book is here:
https://maefood.blogspot.com/2023/12/recent-reading.html

So many books, so hard to focus!
best… mae

Shari Burke said...

An excellent reading month for you! for the past few years, I've been slowly reading the Golden Age Queens of Crime (other than Agatha Christie--been reading her since I was a teen) in publication order. I started with Ngaio Marsh and read her Roderick Alleyn books, then went to Margery Allingham. I have one Albert Campion book to read that she wrote herself before her death and then one that she started and her husband finished. After that, I'll be starting on Tey. Hope June is filled with great reads, too :-)

bonnie p said...

Jeanie, Where did you find the book Moral Treatment? It is not at my library, nor is it available from Amazon. I'm stumped. I would love to read it.

Lowcarb team member said...

You've done so well with your reads.
Thank you for the reviews.

All the best Jan

Debbie said...

this does sound like a very productive month. i am going to try listening to audio books!!

Rajani Rehana said...

Beautiful post

Anonymous said...

There has to be something for everyone in this list! I already have "Before the Coffee gets Cold " which I liked, and of the others, I'd probably enjoy the Midsomer Murder most! but usually I have to read a few pages before I actually buy..Jenny W

Veronica Lee said...

I enjoyed reading your book roundup!
"Before the coffee gets cold" sounds interesting.
Always fun seeing what you’ve been reading!

acorn hollow said...

What a mix of books!
Cathy

Anonymous said...

Jeanie, I love many of these books and have added them to my list. I almost missed this post of yours. For whatever reason, many of my regular emails are going my into “junk”.

Carol said...

I just wrote the comment above but forgot to include my name. It’s probably because I’m sick again with another bad cold, not thinking!

My name is Erika. said...

The Book of Delights does sound like a great over time read. I think so many people do forget to look at the little things, and if a book can make someone see them and make you feel good, it sounds like a winner. I've read Before the Coffee Gets Cold and I liked it. It's different, but it makes lots of sense. I would be lovely to be able to do that time travel, wouldn't it? So did you read Moral Treatment for the mystery or because of where it was set. Either way it must have made you think about your great grandfather's experience. Thanks for the book reviews. It is always enjoyable to read them. Happy rest of your weekend. hugs-Erika

DVArtist said...

So many great books. Enjoy them.

Marg said...

I like the sound of The Upstairs Delicatessen.

Reading the Before the Coffee Gets Cold was not only enjoyable but it also opened me up to reading a lot of other Japanese and Korean stories.

Carole @ From My Carolina Home said...

The Upstairs Delicatessen sounds right up my alley! I read Before the Coffee Gets Cold last year and enjoyed it as well. The Book of Delights sounds like another great snack read. Moral Treatment sounds like a deeply disturbing read, but interesting. Wow, so many things to add to my to-read list this month!

anno said...

The Upstairs Delicatessen sounds like lots of fun! And I'll agree with you about the Ross Gay Book of Delights: I've had it for more than a year now and I'm still dipping into it once in a while, not quite finished with it yet. And what's not to like about RBG and Nina Totenberg? I loved that book! Plus a couple of interesting mysteries? Sounds like you had a terrific reading month!

As you noted in your post from 2018, the psychiatric hospital in Traverse City has since been converted to a shopping/condo/ dining space, which is quite lovely in its own right. My husband and I enjoyed a wonderful weekend there just a few months before you wrote that post, but I must admit to feeling a little unsettled by the past "vibes" of the place. As interesting as it sounds, I'm not sure I'm ready to take on Moral Treatment just yet. Glad to know it's out there, though.

Granny Sue said...

I see several here i would like to read! Thank you for the suggestions.

Carola Bartz said...

What a great and interesting variety of books, Jeanie. I am not familiar with any of these books. I like your expression "bathroom and waiting room" books.

crackercrumblife said...

How did you like Before the Coffee Gets Cold? I have that on my TBR and I change my mind about it all the time. I don't usually like time travel, but the rest of it intrigues me.

Lisbeth said...

What a mix of interesting book. I am like you, I have a book all over the house, reading when I happen to be there; the bathroom, breakfast table, living room sofa and by the bed of course. As you say, you have to choose the right book that you can easily put down and pick up.
I recently got hold of a Josephine Tey, so looking forward reading that one. I started "Before the coffee ..." but did not like the idea of the travelling in time theme. However, having read your review, I might pick it up again.
You obviously had a wonderful time reading these books, many about food, which is always a pleasure. You just should not be hungry when you read them.

Joy's Book Blog said...

Death of a Hollow Man has a terrific setting -- community theater is bound to have lots of drama!
Nina Totenberg's book sounds fascinating.

Kym said...

Great reading list! I'm taking note of the two you mentioned as being good to read in short bits, which is exactly the kind of read I like to have handy. Thanks for the suggestions! Visiting from Share Your Shelf - happy reading!

Jenn Jilks said...

I am reading a new book by the former First Lady of Iceland. She is Canadian, and went to my kids' high school a few years before them.

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