Wednesday, December 17, 2025

Friends and Fun at Holiday Time

We're closing in on Christmas and perhaps the best part is spending time with friends and doing some fun things, a bit out of the box. As I mentioned in the last post, my friend Suzanne came for a short visit and we did some Christmas shopping. The stores are looking good!

 

One spot we like offered snacks (they sell sauces and rubs and such, so it was good marketing!). It made for a nice treat on an impossibly frigid, windy day. They also had a couple of singers with an accordion come in and sing holiday songs. They were rather off key at times (but then, who isn't?) but very holly jolly and it was a nice touch.

 

After dinner, we drove by the state capitol building for a look at the tree. 

 

From there, we took a little holiday tour of lights in our old neighborhood. Some were incredibly elaborate and those photos were terrible! Suzanne couldn't really stop because there were people behind us! But here is the house I grew up in. Very simple but festive. It was nice to see it. (But I liked my mom's wreaths and such a little more!)

 

The park had a drive-through light display too. Very festive. I wish they did this when I lived in the house above -- the back yard looked into the park and we would have been able to see these fun displays in the distance.

 

To exit, you drove through an arbor of lights...

 

And then said farewell to Santa!

Seeing Suzanne was probably the best medicine I needed after the past few weeks. It has taken more than a bit to get some mojo back from the surgery, and then over the weekend I went into afib again, which is disturbing. But we had such a good time! As other good friends before her have done, she did Sherpa duty when carrying heavier bags was involved!

  

It was my turn to host the monthly lunch with my friends Jane and Susie. I wanted to make party favors because it's the holidays (we usually don't) but since I hadn't been shopping I gave them treat bags of medical supplies. (hot and cold packs that you shake or break for instant heat), eyeglass cleaner cloths and cough drops! Probably more useful than whatever else I might have come up with otherwise!

 

We have the best time and the deepest conversations. We're all dealing with the same issues of "what do we do with our stuff" along with thoughts of moving in a few years. We talk about kids and grands, health and well being and always a bit of theatre talk. I treasure these two and one of my great joys is that in the past couple of years we have reconnected and become more than acquaintances but deep, true friends.

I made a wonderful curried chicken salad -- basically 3/4 c. mayo, 2 tsp. curry, 3 cups of chicken and 1 T. lemon juice. Then I added green grapes, cashews, red onion, celery and parsley, just winging it. Next time I might put in a dash more curry but it very tasty served over greens with a wedge of lemon. I used a rotisserie chicken and it went together quickly. Susie brought bread and Jane dessert. Take a look at these absolutely amazing gingerbread cookies Jane made! Delicious and too cute for words!

 

I am so lucky to have wonderful friends. Kate took me grocery shopping, Carol took me to a doc appointment, and our friends Mark and Jan came to sit with Rick during my surgery. Mark also picked me up from one of Lizzie's vet visits and took me to the pet food store. Jan took off on a Christmas market cruise and Rick went to Toledo, so Mark and I enjoyed dinner at a favorite restaurant. We made mincemeat of fajitas, topopo salad and cheese dip. Messy but marvelous!

 

Cork Popper friend Barb was going to host Kate and me for cutting greens at her house in the country but that morning her husband was taken to the hospital and things were topsy turvy. Of course we canceled. But the next day, en route to the hospital, Barb dropped by with loads of greens for both Kate and me, along with a big vat of homemade soup and muffins. Overwhelming.


And where are those greens? Presently they are in the old toilet that is sitting next to my garage till we can find a way to get it to the dump. It's not pretty, but at least with the greens, it becomes useful. Maybe I'll keep them there till spring. 

 

I don't open gifts before Christmas unless I'm with the person who gave it to me. The other day I learned that someone in the family has far less self control. 

And, if a minute of "cute," a look at Cat Bliss! (Sorry about the fast "out" on the music! I'm learning!)

 


And finally, Rick and I made to to a beautiful holiday play called "All Is Calm," which recounts the Christmas Truce of 1914 when British and German soldiers put down their arms and celebrated Christmas together. It was almost all music and mesmerizing. I liked our production better than this one I found on youtube -- we had an all male cast and their voices were magnificent. But this one has closed captions (more or less) and if you have an hour and would love a thoughtful and lovely video, I recommend this one.    

It's hard to believe we are about a week out from Christmas. Appointments and visiting friends are part of this week and a week from tomorrow, Kevin and Molly and the boys will arrive. This is the first time they've been to Christmas here since Carson, now almost nine, had not yet turned one! I leave you with a photo from that time.


 The happy Christmas child! 

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70 comments:

My name is Erika. said...

Time is flying by. I realized last night I hadn't even made a single holiday cookie, so today I am at least going to get the doughs started since the next couple of days are busy. It looks like your recuperating has had some real pleasant moments, but too bad about a-fib again. That must be frustrating. Its fun going to the stores and seeing them decked out though. I do wonder how much shopping people are doing since often the stores still seem pretty full of merchandise. I hope you have a fun time with the kids (wow, has it been that long? I remember when Cam was just an infant.) I think the lead up to he holiday is as much fun as the holiday itself. hugs-Erika

eileeninmd said...

Hello,
Spending time with friend and family is the best, it does cheer you up! Cute photos of you and your friends. Lizzie is cute opening her present early. Carson was a cute baby, Happy birthday! Take care, have a wonderful day!

Tom said...

...Jeanie, Christmas is closing in and I don't know where the time went. Continue to enjoy the season with friends and family.

Sandi said...

How in the world did she make those beards?? 😄

You don't see an acordian everyday-- wonderful!

Cute Carson, delightful photos. Thank you for sharing them, Jeanie.

coffeeontheporchwithme said...

You have such marvelous friends, Jeanie! But of course to make friends you must be a friend and I think you are treasured by them as much as they are by you! Enjoy these last few days before the big event! -Jenn

Boud said...

What a full life you have, such friends! Merry season!

acorn hollow said...

You sound happy and excited. I am so happy for you there is nothing like friends.
Sounds like you will have a wonderful Christmas too with your grand there.
Many Christmas blessings to you.
Cathy

Carole @ From My Carolina Home said...

We did a light show drive through a local park last night, so much fun to do with friends in the car and Christmas music! Your lunch looks wonderful, and I love those gingerbread Santas! Must be a catnip toy to cause such bliss, LOL!!

Carol said...

My gosh how talented she must be to make those gingerbread Santas! I am glad you are enjoying the season.

Rita said...

Did the pacemaker do its job and get you out of the afib? How did that work out? Quickly or slowly?
You had such wonderful days with such wonderful friends!! They have been such a help to you, too.
You will be so glad to see that handsome grandson! Have a very merry Christmas, dear lady! :) :)

Joanne said...

Wow! Those gingerbread cookies are incredible! It sounds like you and your friends have been having some wonderful times together!

Dixie @ Arranged Words said...

So wonderful to spent time with good friends and family.
Oh, tasty-looking and artful gingerbread cookies.
Kitty knows what's hers. :)
Beautiful grandchild.
Merry Christmas Jeanie!

Anvilcloud said...

You have a very impressive social and helpful circle.

Leslie's Garden said...

I love the idea of having a small luncheon for my girl friends. Looks like you've got a great group of helpful friends. I hope you have a great week. take care.

Prims By The Water said...

Your childhood home looked nice. Its wonderful to have friends you can spend time with. Those cookies are unreal. I would not want to eat them they looked that good. Janice

roentare said...

This is a generous, warm-hearted chronicle of friendship and resilience, where small kindnesses, shared meals, and music quietly outweigh the hardships and make the season feel genuinely restorative.

Linda's Relaxing Lair said...

Hello Jeanie, beautiful photos, lovely smiles and great food! I love the Christmas tree plates! I enjoyed the cat video and the music with it. Very sweet!

Soma @ InkTorrents.com said...

Happy faces are the best! Those cookies are really amazing. Kitty claimed what's hers. You can't blame her for that. She is so cute! Happy Holidays!

-Soma

Dicky Bird said...

Nice to reconnect with old friends.

Iris Flavia said...

The "off key" sure made me smile!
Great tree and... sad you could not stop by your old home and maybe ask to visit?
Great (and somewhat even spooky) displays - love it!
To good friends and good mojo! Love your give-aways. Just yesterday I told my friend I buy but things you can eat ot drink as presents for my Aussie friends.
Nice plates, too! And the salad sounds YUM! As do the cute cookies. And wonderful friends all around - now tis really is the season!
Wish all would put their weapons down for good...
Cute last pic. Soon, after my last "real" work day Ingo and I will be off to the Christmas Market.
Have a happy day!

Pam Richardson said...

Jeanie, you have been blessed with wonderful friends and I am sure you are a fabulous friend too! I love seeing how you have enjoyed the most wonderful time of the year! Those cookies are beautiful! Take care and Merry, Merry!

La Table De Nana said...

You have the best friends which means you must be the best friends.I know it.I'd be exhausted with all that lol But you are libvinh your best life! Enjoy..take care..and the cookies are wow:)

Marilyn Miller said...

I love that you have friends that can pitch in and drive you places. Those Santa cookies are amazing. The toilet with greens is such a good idea. Yes, keep it up awhile. Oh that Lizzie!!! I love all the lights of Christmas. I was just looking at my lights on my patio and thinking I would keep them up for awhile after Christmas because they just make me smile. What a pretty house you grew up in. There are some big trees behind it too. Take care, dear one!

shoreacres said...

Christmas lights always look better in snow, and the absolutely are better than the inflatable plastic figures that seem to be all the rage here -- even in the upscale neighborhood where I'm currently working. I will say that the 20' inflatable Grinch demanded attention!

Sandi Magle said...

You certainly have a full calendar...but all so much fun. Enjoy every minute, and definitely keep tabs on the AFIB...no matter how busy it gets!!! HUGS, and have a wonderful Christmas with your family!

Misadventures of Widowhood said...

You could give a master class on how to form lasting friendships. I so admire you for that and how you dive right into life and get the most out of your days.

Linda @ Life and Linda said...

Precious friends are priceless. I love seeing Christmas lights. Those gingerbread cookies are wonderful. Enjoy these last few days until Christmas.🎄

Carol On The Lake said...

Lots of lights in Michigan at Christmas! My family & I always drive around looking at lights for fun.

anno said...

Such pretty lights! Driving around town to see the displays was always one of my favorite events. Dad took us for a ride, and when we came home the tree was up, and Mom had a plateful of cookies for us to devour. Good memories.

Looks like you've been making a lot of good memories in recent weeks. So glad you've enjoyed lovely visits with lovely [and talented! those gingerbread cookies are a work of art!] friends... and plenty of beautiful music.

Enjoy these last weeks of the year, friend -- Merry, Merry Christmas!

Shari Burke said...

I am grateful every day for my friends--old and new. I'm sure you are too for many reasons. From your post, I can tell that they're wonderful people and I am thrilled for you that you have them in your life! Enjoy the rest of the festive season, Jeanie.

This N That said...

Christmas is fast approaching..I must get moving.. Haven't started my cards..Decorating and wrapping is done but there's not much of that any more..You are fortunate to have so many close friends..
It's been a long time since I have ridden around looking at Christmas lights..We used to do that every year..
There's that word again.."used to"..

Rostrose said...

Dear Jeanie, you know, laughter is the best medicine – and you obviously laughed a lot with your friends – that's wonderful! You grew up in a very pretty house. But I think the decorations were more atmospheric in earlier times – nowadays they're brighter and use more electricity 😉. Anyway – enjoyment is important, and you treated yourself to that with people you like very much; I can see the joy on all of your faces. Jane's gingerbread cookies are truly sensational!
How cute the cat is playing! Our Chiller can be just as crazy – unfortunately, he doesn't like being filmed or photographed, so I don't often manage to capture it.
Warmest greetings and a time filled with light & joy 🕯️✨❣️, Traude
https://rostrose.blogspot.com/2025/12/reisebericht-2025-niagara-falls.html

Lowcarb team member said...

So sorry to read you went into afib again, I'm sure you and your medical team will keep your eyes on that!

Lovely photographs you've shared, may you continue to enjoy the season with friends and family.
My very good wishes.

All the best Jan

Granny Sue said...

My, you have been busy! And such fun things! You have a wealth of good friends, a real blessing. Loved the cat and the baby photos too.
Do you know the film Silent Night? It's about a sort of truce that happened in WWII. A true story, and the man,who was a child in Germany at the time, ended up living here in WV! We watch it every year.

nicole orriens said...

I appreciate the way stores decorate for christmas and make everything feel more festive too. Those gingerbread cookies are lovely. Especially the beards!

May Salty Pumpkin said...

Merry Christmas! 🎄
Good friends is good medicine!
May

an artist reflects said...

What a special time with friends and great post and photos ~ Happy Little boy photo '~ brought a special feeling to me ~ thanks, hugs,

an artist reflects

MELODY JACOB said...

What a warm and joyful post. Your holiday celebrations, surrounded by friends and family, come alive through your stories. It’s heartening to see how much love, care, and laughter fills your days, even amid health challenges.

Jenn Jilks said...

Take it easy! Sounds like you are doing a lot!

DVArtist said...

Well my dear friend. I'm so sorry about the health issues. I have you on my list of morning healing candle ceremony. You are very fortunate to be surrounded by such good friends. It makes all the difference. Your smile is infectious and brings joy even when you are not 100%. Oh what a great idea for the gift bags. Kitty just couldn't wait. LOL Happy that you were able to attend the play. Thank you for sharing all of this love with FFO. Be well my dear friend, happy Christmas and the best 2026.

Debbie said...

i think you have such great friends because you are a true, awesome friend to so many people!! this time of year, it is not fun to be unwell but i am sure your friends feel really good helping out!! i love driving around to look at christmas lights, we are doing that tonight!! take care now, keep that amazing smile!!

maya said...

Christmas is less than a week away... that's wild! I'm happy to hear about all your pre-holiday celebrations and hearing you looking forward to celebrating with the grands next week...

That arbor of lights looks amazing! I like when stores have singers... You're right, it doesn't matter if they're a bit off key. Van Atta's had some really good singers a few weekends ago...

And Jeanie--you have such an amazing, brilliant, and beautiful smile!! I smile back every time I see it!

Carola Bartz said...

Jeanie, your friends sound wonderful! You are very lucky to have them, but I am sure that you would do the same for them. The house you grew up in looks so beautiful with the lights and the snow - I like simple! I will also write down how you made the curried chicken salad, it sounds easy and delicious.
Have a very merry Christmas! Big hugs - Carola

Christine said...

Season's Greetings!

Lisa's Yarns said...

Oh dear, the a fib sounds concerning. Did the pacemaker do the trick? I hope so. I am glad you are under the close watch of a medical team.

I am glad you’ve had great times with friends. That is so uplifting and you need uplifting experiences to offset all the tough stuff you’ve been through this year! Those gingerbread cookies look amazing. How ever did she make those stringy beards!! They are almost too pretty to eat! And I like your practical goodie bags. They will be put to use I’m sure!

We just got back from looking at Christmas lights. One child said they were tired and the other complained of being thirsty over and over. But I loved it!!

handmade by amalia said...

Such a cheerful post! You've captured the very best of the season. Wishing you good health and happy holidays.
Amalia
xo

jeanie said...

What a lovely post. I do hope that the afib settles back. We are all heading towards the pointy end of the plane, you do so enjoy (and give us joy to share) the journey.

roughterrain crane said...

You had a happy time. Thanks for sharing the beautiful tree.

Deb Nance at Readerbuzz said...

When someone comments on something he/she likes in my house, I write the person's name on a piece of paper and tape it underneath the objected or pin it to the inside of the clothes. Sometimes I just hand it to the person! We feel like it is time to start passing things on while we can see the enjoyment in the faces of others.

Your thoughts about friendship are wonderful. Yes to the deep conversations!

Maria Medeiros said...

Jeanie your smile in the pictures is a blessing! Lovely truly lovely. Love all your lovely photos. Have a very Merry Christmas! :)

Bill said...

Enjoy your Christmas with your friends and family, have a wonderful festive season.

Carol said...

I’ve been reading all your posts, but I haven’t commented until now. No matter how or what I do, December is always a crazy month for me. I’m so sorry to hear about your afib after having a pacemaker put in. I’m hoping all is fine with you. The Santa gingerbread cookies are too cute to eat. Their beards look like a lot of work. It’s always fun getting together with our friends. BTW, cute idea with the greens in the toilet. Creative thinking! I’m wishing you a very Merry Christmas and hoping things will settle down for you soon!

DeniseinVA said...

Fun to see you with your friends and the little one is so cute! I also am sorry to hear about your episode with afib, must have been worrying for you. Those Santa gingerbreads are impressive! I have not made any cookies as we are having a very low-key holiday, just us two and the adult 'kiddos'. Lovely photos and much enjoyed. Wishing you and your Loved Ones a Merry Christmas and a Very Happy and Healthy New year!

David M. Gascoigne, said...

Great to have good friends around you. As we get older and lose a few the ones who remain are ever more precious. We have been remembering a few recently, not in any maudlin way, but drinking a toast to the memory of a life well lived and the joy it brought to us.

Fundy Blue said...

A-fib sounds scary, Jeanie! I hope it doesn't happen to you again. You have wonderful friends, but I know that's because you are a wonderful friend. Your luncheon table was beautiful. And those gingerbread cookie your friend made ~ wow! Carson is adorable ~ look at his two little teeth. What a joy. Have a wonderful Christmas time with your loved ones!

Pamela said...

Wonderful lead up to Christmas!

The Happy Whisk said...

Oh my gosh. You are such a cutie pie. Great, great pictures. This post is filled with fun. LOOOOOVE the simple lights outside of the house. My kinda fun.

Julie's Creative Lifestyle said...

It looks like you are enjoying the holidays with friends. I hope you have a Merry Christmas and a happy new year.

ashok said...

Enjoy the happy season.. Merry Christmas 🎉

Jim and Barb's Adventures said...

What a great week! Merry Christmas to you and your family!

Red Rose Alley said...

That's a grand tree at the State Capitol. That must have been a trip down memory lane driving by the house that you grew up in. I like all the festive decorations in the neighborhood. You set a nice table for your lunch friends, Jeanie. I have seen the movie about the Christmas Truce. I really enjoyed watching it. That's a cute photo of baby Carson.

Merry Christmas to you, dear Jeanie. Have a special and merry week. I have appreciated your friendship all these years. : )

~Sheri

peppylady (Dora) said...

I just wrap up Christmas shopping. Last things I got was some land lotion and duct tape.

Veronica Lee said...

Jeanie, it’s so lovely reading about your friends and all the ways you support each other.
Your holiday season sounds wonderful.
Wishing you all the joy you deserve!

Sami said...

Have a wonderful Christmas with your family Jeanie and may 2026 bring you health and happiness.

thecuecard said...

What festive Christmas-y photos! Where are they taken -- in KC? You all seem to be having much fun. Merry Christmas!

Hena Tayeb said...

Such wonderful friends you have! Those lights all look so wonderful. Have a happy holiday.

Debbie-Dabble Blog and A Debbie-Dabble Christmas said...

Jeanie,
Merry Christmas to you and your family!! I am playing catch up and I apologize for not being able to come by sooner... Thanks so much for all your visits and kind words which were truly appreciated!!
Hugs,
Deb
Debbie-Dabble Blog

Nancy said...

Hi Jeanne. You have the most wonderful friends! But that means you are a most wonderful friend too.
I sure hope you got the afib figured out. Praying for you!
Merry Christmas to you and yours!

Lisbeth said...

So many nice memories from the festive season. Looks lovely. We hardly noticed it at all in Egypt. Partly because we were occupied with an intensive program. All the best for 2026.

crackercrumblife said...

I hope that your friend's husband is doing well.

It looks like the shopping day was so much fun! I haven't been Christmas shopping like that in a long time! We used to go all the time, my mom, my aunt and I, then Chrissy and her mom too (my SIL and her mom) and then, we stopped. We always had so much fun.

I'm glad you had a fun time!

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