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Saturday, May 23, 2026

On the Trail

Rick and I had a poignant, interesting and fun day recently. We headed to Kalamazoo, Michigan (where he used to live) for the memorial service of a friend of Rick's. As longtime readers of this blog know, Rick is an avid cyclist, with a racing past and a present that includes a passion for lengthy bike hikes. But he considers his greatest life accomplishment as being the "Father of the Kal-Haven Trail," a cycling trail that goes from Kalamazoo to South Haven, Michigan and the first rail trail in the state.

 

His friend who passed, Mike, was one of his colleagues when working on the trail. As Rick often says, "the trail was built on the shoulders of many" and Mike was one of them.

 

Rick played his guitar during part of the reception but mostly it was a time for all to remember Mike, who was quite an amazing man. It was the kind of day where you left feeling enriched and, in my case, sorry I did not know him better.

 

After that, we drove through Rick's old neighborhood and by his  old house. He loved that house and I can see why. It was in a wonderful neighborhood.

 

When Rick lived there, there was a park across the street with a steep, wooded incline below. Now the area is a playground for the adjacent school, but Rick couldn't resist a walk in the woods.

 

But the real woods he wanted to visit this day were those of the Kal-Haven trail. It was especially fitting as we had just said "goodbye" to Mike. We took a long walk from the trail head (which has, fittingly for a rail trail, this old caboose at its start.)

The walk was about a mile in total (for us -- you could go many miles more!) We saw some beautiful wildflowers. The smell of honeysuckle brought back memories for me and was a fragrant accompaniment to the walk.

 

I especially liked the wild phlox.

 

It was a perfect day, late in the afternoon, but we saw many people using the trail. That was a good feeling -- there were cyclists, walker and joggers, all out enjoying this wonderful resource.

 

What a wonderful spot for exercise or simply for contemplation.

 

Then it was off to dinner at another "Rick Place." Now it is named Cosmos, but when he worked there are a cook in the 1980s, it was called The Exchange. It's a charming restaurant and what makes it even better, it is in a neighborhood with a pub underneath. These neighbors have a good thing going on! 

 

When we got home to a hungry Lizzie, it was good to be back, but oh, it was such a memorable day. 

 

I can see why he loves it so much.

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56 comments:

  1. My deepest condolences on the loss of a wonderful friend. You both look great. Hugs. xoxo.
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  2. Wow, what a cool trip - LITERALLY going down memory lane. It's so fun to revisit old places to see how they've changed since our youth. Sometimes I wish I could go inside places - my childhood home, my elementary school - to see if they match the picture in my head. Most likely they do not!

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  3. I got excited. I thought the couple walking in the photo with the bike were both carrying big cameras. But they just look like water bottles on closer inspection. :(

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  4. Oh, what a delightful visit this must have been! Your words, your stories, your recollections, your photos and your smiles are warm and charming! You have captured the history and experience that was envisioned and will remain long beyond our years on this earth. Special thanks to Rick and those who applied their shoulders and spirits to this wonderful trail! And thanks to Jeannie for telling this story so well!

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  5. Jeanie, this is a lovely post. Remembering Rick’s friend, walking the trail that Rick and his friend among others built, Rick’s house from the past, the meal at the restaurant where Rick had worked…all of this made for a memorable day. Thanks for sharing it with us!

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  6. My condolences for the lost of a wonderful friend. You and Rick have lots of great memories of his friendship. He had a great vision along with others who helped create the trail. Lots of people will be using it for generations.

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  7. Such mixed feelings after reading this post: memorials are such bittersweet occasions, but they are often a great opportunity to connect with others, share stories, and pause to appreciate the community that supported the deceased. And then, that Kal-Haven trail looks amazing -- Rick is right to count that as one of his life achievements -- and I hope to see it someday.

    We periodically visit Kalamazoo. I attended school there, and the Kalamazoo Nature Center is one of my sacred places -- their beech and maple forests are worth the visit, especially on a sunny autumn day.

    And the restaurant you visited is housed in the same place as one of my favorite restaurants from my own college days: The Troubadour (famous for Russian Tea and fantastic grilled cheese sandwiches). So glad to see that this space is still launching new incarnations of wonderful restaurants.

    What a great day! (And, thanks for bringing back these memories!)

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  8. A wonderful tribute to Mike, may he rest in peace. What a lovely old house Rick used to live in and a beautiful area. I enjoyed seeing the old caboose, enjoyed all your photos in fact Jeanie. I am sure Mike, bless him, would have enjoyed this too.

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  9. That sounds like a truly beautiful day and memorial.

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  10. My condolences for the loss of a wonderful friend, may Mike RIP.

    This was a beautiful post in so many respects ...
    ... and that shadow shot just completed your post perfectly :)

    All the best Jan

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  11. What a lovely tribute! Thank you for sharing these memories πŸ’•

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  12. That does sound like a lovely day, for all that it came about on a sad occasion. Rail trails are the best!

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  13. Sounds like a wonderful day!

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  14. What a wonderful and bittersweet day for you two. Rick’s childhood home is beautiful. I have heard good things about Kalamazoo! I am sorry for Rick’s loss, though.

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  15. It is simply wonderful to let the beauty of one's own past come alive again every now and then.
    I have wild phlox in my garden! :-))
    Warm regards to you all, and thank you for the beautiful photos.

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  16. Hello,
    So sorry for the loss of Rick's friend. What a lovely day and tribute to Mike! Beautiful walk and photos. I love Rick's old house and the caboose. Take care, Happy Sunday! Have a wonderful week!

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  17. Not everyone can say their old neighborhood is still as quaint as it used to be (πŸ™‹‍♀️). What a great visit, even the memorial service with Rick paying tribute to his friend.

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  18. Kudos to Rick for a job well done and a friend well remembered. I have often said that when I die, if people can genuinely say, “David was a good guy who cared,” I would want no more. It seems like Mike was one of those guys.

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  19. ...losing a friend is difficult, be strong and embrace life.

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  20. I remember you mentioning this trail, and Rick's involvement with its creation, in the past. It looks wonderful: a life accomplishment worth celebrating. Even though I usually pay most attention to the natural features in your blog, Rick's former home caught my eye this time. That bay window brought back some of my own memories. I used to stay as a child with a friend of my parents who lived in a huge house with a huge antique collection. She had a bay window filled with colored glass, and I loved nothing more than getting up early enough in the morning to watch the sunlight make it sparkle and shine!

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  21. My condolences:( Tell Rick I love his house:)

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  22. I'm sorry for your reason to visit Kalamazoo, but I did really enjoy seeing and reading about Rick's rail trail project. And a little bit about Rick's background too. I can see why you love Rick's old house too. It is a beauty. Thanks for this lovely little adventure, sad as the reason is that it happened. hugs-Erika

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  23. Wonderful memories and tribute. Mike sounds like a giver and an all around good guy. Our bike friends see us struggle and succeed. That trail will be a legacy for everyone that created it.

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  24. It’s so hard to lose a friend, my condolences. Thanks for the little tour around Kalamazoo and sharing those sweet memories…as usual, your photography and words are amazing…love the photo of you two. Have the best day, Virginia

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  25. What a wonderful accomplishment! I have some idea of how much work that must have been. Here, the county is doing a similar trail for hikers and bikers on an abandoned rail line between cities. It has taken several years to get it off the ground and the first five miles paved for use. Our local citizens love it, and I'm sure the Kalamazoo folks love theirs too. To Rick, applause, applause!!

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  26. Next time I go to Kalamazoo I'll have to seek out this trail! Rick may have mentioned it when you all visited. Dave used to live in Kalamazoo so I'm sure they could share stories -- and maybe they already did and I've just forgotten! I'll have to ask Dave if he remembers The Exchange.

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  27. Dear friend, my profound condolences.
    Your photos are beautiful. A lovely tribute.
    And Jeanie, you look radiant.

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  28. Such a bittersweet day. I'm so sorry for Rick's loss. May he find comfort in the happy memories he has of his friend.

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  29. Walks down memory lane are so poignant and rich. It looks like a great place to visit.
    I send condolences to Rick on the loss of his friend. It is so hard to say goodbye to special people.

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  30. I''m all in with ANONYMOUS up there---"Shoulders and Spirits," indeed! What a lovely way to express such a vital, encompassing, useful, lasting piece of Michigan's history and treasures.

    And what a day to be there---In Memoriam and in use and so lasting in the lives of all those walkers and bikers and bird-watchers and simple strollers in reverie or recovery or needed meditation or healing exercise. Kudos to RICK for such a lasting piece of the glory that is your Michigan. You're looking pretty glorious yourself, as always.

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  31. It's great to have had a friend who had such a positive impact on the world. And it's good to know that Rick was also involved in the good work. I'm glad you got to walk some of the trail, too.

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  32. It always so wonderful like you said to have a memorial where when you leave you are enriched because of someone's life.

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  33. Your photos, as always, are beautiful. Just when I think I've done all the traveling I need/want to do a new place pops up on my to-visit list.

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  34. A special day all the way around and a wonderful tribute to Rick and Mike.

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  35. What a lovely memorial service and day.

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  36. A long day to be sure. Poor Lizzie. Lovely post as well as pictures. I think that those purple flowers are geraniums. I have some planted in my flower beds. Which wasn’t too smart because they really take over…. they transplant easily.

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  37. There is something very special about returning home and revisiting all the old stomping grounds. How nice that you and Rick were able to enjoy the day together and still pay tribute to his dear friend.

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  38. The memorial, the wooded stretch of the Kal-Haven Trail, and the old restaurant all seem woven together into a day shaped equally by friendship, memory, and the quiet persistence of places that hold pieces of a life.

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  39. I am sorry to read about the reason you went on this trip! The way you spent this day was a wonderful tribute to Mike and no doubt made Rick feel closer to Mike. That pathway looks beautiful!

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  40. While the "reason" for the road trip to Kalamazoo was sad in many ways, it was also uplifting in others. It was informative to read about Rick's friend, Mike, and the important role that played in developing the trail. Rick's former home does look lovely and in a tranquil setting. And, it must have been rewarding to see the trail so well used during your visit. The Exchange does sound like a good place to end the day in.

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  41. I am so sorry for the loss of Rick's friend but it sounds like you both had a lovely trip back to his roots.

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  42. Mike must have been a wonderful friend and good companion. And I bet it was lovely to go back to Rick's old place. Is he planning another cycling trip? My daughter just returned from a solo cycling trip along the Danube Cycle Path (the Austrian part) that she thoroughly enjoyed.

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  43. So sorry to hear about Rick's friend. Walking those trails seems like a lovely way to remember him.

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  44. It's so nice going home again and seeing the place where we lived before. I'm sorry Rick lost a dear friend. I loved seeing Rick's old house, such a charming one. And that old caboose is really neat. The scent of the honeysuckle and the memories must have made you smile. : ) That is a nice picture of both of you at the restaurant. What a terrific day this was for you, Jeanie. Lots of memories and time spent together.

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  45. Earlier posters have said it all, So I will just add my love for the two of you and congratulate you, Jeanie, on another great post

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  46. My condolences to your friend. A sad trip but yet happy in other ways.
    You both walked on Rick’s trail and then ate in his special restaurant. A ride by his old house. It sure was pretty. Such a memorable day.

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  47. So glad you and Rick could attend the memorial service and remember memories. What a gorgeous trail. Rick can be really proud of the work he did on this trail. His home and neighborhood sounds so very special and beautiful.

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  48. I love the photo of Rick playing the guitar at this friend's funeral. I think that's such a beautiful way to honor someone. It does sound like a lovely and memorable day.

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  49. Thanks for inviting us to spend this special day with you, I was sorry to hear about your friend.
    Amalia
    xo

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  50. What a beautiful and meaningful story πŸ’™ The mix of friendship, memories, and passion for cycling makes this so touching to read. And being known as the “Father of the Kal-Haven Trail” is such an incredible legacy — what an amazing contribution to Michigan’s cycling community. Truly inspiring and heartfelt! 🚴‍♂️✨

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  51. This was such a heartfelt and inspiring read 🌿🚴‍♂️ You can really feel the deep connection between friendship, memories, and the love of cycling throughout the story. The Kal-Haven Trail legacy is absolutely remarkable — creating something that continues to bring joy to so many people is a truly special achievement. πŸ’™

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  52. So sorry for the loss of a dear friend, always so hard to say goodby. A lovely place for your walk and reflection. It's always nice to return and see the homes and places we spent our childhoods. I'm sure that was some "down memory road" for Rick.Hoping you both have a wonderful week........

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  53. What a beautiful day of remembrance for Rick and you! You look radiant, as always; and I love the shadow photo of you both.

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  54. I'm sorry that Rick's friend passed, but it was obviously a sad-and-happy day too. That house looks beautiful, I'm not surprised Rick loved it. And the woods too. He is right to be proud of the trail- a great place to just be outside and enjoying moving amidst nature, and with a story of cooperation, optimism and public spiritedness to go with it! A great post and the end photo of Rick walking on the trail is a classic!

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  55. What a nice tribute to Mike. And I'm impressed by Rick's work in the creation of that rail to trails bike trail ... so wonderful for recreationists to have that path! kudos to Mike & Rick. and a nice day.

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  56. You are such a lovely family!

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